Why Is Evangelism So Awkward?/ Does The State HAVE To Approve A Marriage?/ Can Separated People Date?

Nathan asks Greg why it seems so hard to transition to spiritual matters when talking with an unbeliever. Steve Hartland from Trinity Church asks really tricky questions about what constitutes a marriage. Should a church accept people who privately married without the approval from the state? Can a person consider himself divorced before God regardless of the state's recognition? Can such a person feel free to date?